Becox i am me.

Take a look at this. Click on it to read it full size. Take a look. Feel free to see how i get scolded until cao tao and then finally see how i get threatened by people who wanna report me =OOO

Report me to who, i don't know. But i am pretty sure they think they can get me into serious trouble and that i should be scared shitless.. That, or that i will be so scared i shit my pants.

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You know what makes me me?

I am lazy, i am vain, i love to stay up late (sometimes it's not a choice, cox i have insomnia), i love to wake up late, i love to play with (cute) babies, i love to snack, i love to slack, i love to shop. I love to do the things i love, whenever i love. I love to blog, about the things i do, see, eat and feel..

And you know who have the luxury to do things they want and love, whenever they want?

Bosses.

Do you know who is my boss?

ME. 私に. Aku. Saya. Moi. 나를. Mnie. 我.

And do you know why i am my own boss?

Not becox i am capable. Not becox i am smart. Not becox i am talented.

But simply becox i am me.

I am lazy, i am vain, i love to stay up late (sometimes it's not a choice, cox i have insomnia), i love to wake up late, i love to play with (cute) babies, i love to snack, i love to slack, i love to shop. I love to do the things i love, whenever i love. I love to blog, about the things i do, see, eat and feel..

And now i feel pretty damn pissed when someone else think they can email me shit like that and wanna claim credit for the things i achieved and maintained with effort and discredit me altogether.

Okay so what happened was.. Mich has been helping me doing the liaising for my blogshop adverts for the longest time cox i really can't manage and i only reply work emails once every 1-2 weeks =X

But she's working overseas now and she only reply whenever she can which is at least twice a week. So after 5 days of not getting a reply SL / Nicole from ABC blogshop decided that it's too long and that they might wanna get a refund. WHICH IS, fully understandable.

If you can't wait, you can always get your money back. But they also didn't forget to insinuate that i "appear to be a very hardworking and serious blogger" hardworking okay, serious? Not really.

But now you get me all serious cox i am seriously pissed.

Not pissed with the email, it was a little insulting, but it's fine. She's probably just sick of the 5 days wait and she wants her money back, which like i said, it's perfectly fine.

So i replied (really meant for Mich only) to ask Mich to arrange for a refund. And as i explained in the email, it's the first time i am being looped into the email conversation. And cox post office only resume work on the 12th, i don't think they can send the parcel on the 12th and have it reached me on time for their ad on the 15th. Cox i only pick up advert items once a week at my parents place over the weekend.

So then woman off her pill got sooooooo fucking pissed she cursed and threatened me in a loooongass email. These are my favourite parts.

"DON'T YOU FORGET WHO HAS BEEN SUPPORTING YOU AND YOUR 'LIFESTYLE', WHICH MIGHT NOT LAST LONG BASED ON YOUR HORRID ATTITUDE."

Thanks for the reminder SL / Nicole! =D I always remember to thank my readers/ followers for a lot of things! And sometimes i do giveaway and i even ask my hair salon sponsor to pick 6 readers / followers of mine for free hair makeover =D I think i have plenty more readers who like me than those who doesn't haha thank God! Phew~

BUT WHY THE FUCK DO I HAVE TO THANK PEOPLE LIKE YOU FOR? People like you did nothing but to make my blood pressure rise for a good 30 minutes while i rant and get angry over.

Don't i dare forget blablabla.. DONT YOU DARE FORGET HOW HORRID YOUR own ATTITUDE IS! How can a business like yourself use your business email and insult a blogger like this and think you have a much better attitude than me.

I am a person. I own a blog. A person can have attitude.

You are a fucking business, suck it up. This is why i don't deal with advertorial and any email replying pertaining to my side businesses. Cox i can't, i am me and i can't take bullshit.

That's why i partner with people who have better temperament, more patience, kinder.

And if i may say so myself, i am on most day generous about ads and payment. If advertisers have been nice and patient, i either give extra for free as goodwill or i do longer ad for them.

And that's why i have returning advertisers be it blogshops that Mich help me handle, or advertisers that Nuffnang pitch me to.

I am a person who writes a blog and got lucky with good and kind people around me helping me out.

And my blog is an accidental business. But i am not talking business. I haven't been, for a long time. So i don't see why ABC blogshop owners SL / Nicole so damn smart and good in PR, can email me with their business email, to my personal email and give me a good ran down of what they think about me and what they foresee in my future. Do you see any other business doing that? Haha.

Sending out angry emails using their business email and scolding people. Lolol. The hilarity.

You better worry for your own future lah, Miss SL / Nicole hahaha =DDD Don't know how many customers you all have secretly cursed already hahaha.

Very sorry to disappoint them but i am doing better than ever and i will continue to do very well.. It's a fact, it's just the way things are and the way things are gonna be becox.. I am me.

And i can't change this. I do the things i love and believe in.. And i stand stronger each time someone try to put me down. What you gonna do? Curse me some more? Go ahead, i thank you for keeping me in your thoughts. Cox that energy is gonna keep me going =)

Oh oh, i also like her sign off,

"I HOPE YOU WAKE UP AND REALISE WHERE EVERYTHING THAT YOU OWN & MADE COME FROM."

Okay let's see.. Are you my manager Jayne? Are you a Nuffie? Are you my dad? Are you my sister? Are you my bff? Are you one of my close friends? Is your name Joshua?

Do you at least love me as a reader?

No no no no no and no? WELL THEN FUCK YOU YOU HAVE NO RIGHTS TO ASK ME TO REALISE ANYTHING cox i know damn well where everything came from.

It came from me being me, and from people who love me for me.

And many many nights of staying up doing what i love - Blogging.

And in case anyone think i am a money-grubbing bitch who is damn calculative and just wanna earn everyone's money, number one, i am not earning from my readers / followers.

Number two, i am offering 50% off my sidebar banner and $50 off blog header banners! =D

This offer applies to EVERY blogshop / small startup businesses except ABC blogshop hahahah.

You can email bongqiuqiu@gmail.com if you are keen! And.. If you can wait! Really not cox my adslots damn hot or what, it's just limitations cox Mich is overseas and doesn't always have wifi. But she replies emails twice a week so it's can't be THAT bad.

BTW, Mich has since then emailed ABC blogshop to apologise and to explain why she was late in replying and to follow up to make sure they received the refund. And i told SL / Nicole that i think they should apologise to me for the harsh email filled with insults which was really uncalled for.

No reply from them.

I made this. And i believe in it 100%. If someone say a sincere sorry to me, i will let everything rest. Becox that's the magic of "Please", "Thank you" and "Sorry".. If there's no Love.

But if you pass the time to use the free magic, you become history.